Hi ,
You do not attract what you want. You attract what you are.
—Wayne Dyer
The Law of Attraction is a universal principle that states that you attract to you what you are. "Like attracts like." The Law of Attraction forms the basis for
positive thinking but is much more than that. With your beliefs, thoughts, and actions, you energetically vibrate at a certain frequency, and you attract circumstances, people, and things into your life that vibrate or are aligned with that frequency.
If you want to manifest something, you must become what you are seeking. In
other words, you must become an energetic or vibratory match for what you want to manifest. If you want love, you must practice being more loving. If you want to lose weight, you must become an energetic match for that, meaning you must think and act like a normal weight person.
Overweight people tend to be less active,
think much more about food, eat more fattening type foods, and eat when they’re not hungry. Naturally thin people tend to be more active and eat when hungry and stop when full. Of course, there are exceptions, but this is a general rule.
Many people think they can put in their order for a new body and the Universe will deliver
it on special order. It doesn’t work this way. The more you give to life, the more the Universe gives back. It’s a reciprocal relationship - give and take. Not give me this, give me that. God isn’t a vending machine.
Some of us are looking for an epiphany which will result in food
never being an issue again. This is false. Weight loss and emotional eating recovery is a process, not a onetime event. We may have epiphanies along the way, but they are only pointers of the way. The way still must be practiced.