Develop strong, yet permeable boundaries. Detach from chaotic, toxic or draining relationships
and situations. Learn to say no. Stop trying to be what you think everyone else wants you to be. Please yourself! It’s not the end of the world if someone doesn’t like you.
Acknowledge all that is good about you and your life on a regular basis. Practice gratitude.
Put your focus on your strengths and talents, not on what is missing. Accept that you will never
be perfect. There is perfection in this.
Allow yourself to make mistakes. It means you’re growing! When you fall, pick yourself back up quickly. Relapses are to be expected and part of the recovery process.
Make peace with the
fact that your spirit lives in a body and treat that body as the sacred vehicle it was meant to be. Move and exercise it with love. It is here to serve you. Find the weight that feels right for you, and that’s appropriate to your frame and genetic make-up, not what society thinks you should weigh.
Begin to let go of the past. Acknowledge that there are things that you didn’t get; forgive your
parents, others, and yourself. Learn to give yourself the validation and attention that you need, instead of trying to get it from external sources: people, food, places, and things.
Stop settling and begin to take risks. Your life is only as juicy as the risks you're willing to take. Let go of self-imposed limits and go after what you really want.
This is your
life. Are you going to have a life of regret or a sense of satisfaction knowing you went after what you wanted and gave it your best shot?
These are the choices that are yours to make. Choose well. Your life depends on it!
If you're ready to embark on the journey, I'd love to be
your guide. I offer a free consultation. Contact
me.